The Hijack is not a character flaw or a lack of discipline.
It's an Identity Conflict happening in real time.
For years you operated from an identity built on
high-performance, hyper-vigilance,
and a need to be the one who "holds it all together"
This identity served you well!
It's the very thing that built your business.
But here's the paradox:
The version of you that was forged in the "hustle" is your Silent Partner
the unconscious mind that drives 95% of everything you do.
Your Silent Partner sees your new goals of ease, delegation and stepping back
as a threat to your survival.
When you move toward the next level, your Silent Partner
triggers a Hijack to pull you back to the identity it knows is "safe"
You aren't stuck.
You're just being "protected" by a version of yourself
that you've outgrown.
It sabotages your focus: When you try to work on your "Zone of Genius", your Silent Partner triggers a frantic urge to check emails or fix a minor team issue.
It destabilizes your body: When you try to rest or savor a win, you feel an inexplicable "buzz" of anxiety. That's your old identity telling you that being still is dangerous.
It restricts your leadership: You know you need to delegate, but your Silent Partner treats "letting go" as an unacceptable risk to your high standards.
Most mindset work stays on the surface.
You repeat affirmations while your nervous system is screaming "danger".
The Silent Partner Override goes deeper.
It's a structured process designed to align your
unconscious "security system" with your conscious vision.
We don't fight the Silent Partner, and we don't discard any part of who you are.
We simply change the rules.
Your Silent Partner isn't broken.
It's just running an outdated rule book
built for survival instead of growth.
When you change the rules, your business fundamentally shifts:
Dramatically reduce your stress and anxiety:
Operate from a state of calm authority,
knowing your business will thrive without you pounding 24/7
or carrying the constant fear that everything will fall apart if you step away.
Make confident decisions powered by your authentic wisdom:
Quiet the internal noise so you can access your sharpest intuition,
eliminate analysis paralysis,
and execute strategic choices with total conviction.
Reclaim your time with laser focus and high-impact productivity:
Eliminate distractions, stop wasting energy on low-value tasks,
and get more done in significantly fewer hours
so you can lead with absolute efficiency.
Earn what you actually deserve:
Command your true market value and
unlock higher levels of profitbility,
breaking through revenue ceilings while working fewer hours.
Reclaim the ability to be truly present:
Close your laptop at the end of the day and
actually enjoy your life -
at the dinner table, on vacation, or in stillness,
completely free from the background noise of business anxiety.



Uncovering your Silent Parnters
Wiring the Nervous System for Growth
Changing the Rules & Identity Integration
Before you can change the rules, you have to know who is actually running the show. In this phase we uncover your primary Silent Partner profile and map out the exact unconscious "safety rules" keeping you trapped at your current plateau.
We identify the authentic, powerful identities that have been sidelined by your Silent Partners through years of hyper-vigilance and hustle, targeting the root cause of the friction instead of just managing surface symptoms.
A maxed out business is a direct reflection of a maxed out nervous system. You can't access your authentic business wisdom or make calm, confident decisions when your body is locked in a fight or flight stress response.
Through the Somatic Rescue, we signal psychological safety to your nervous system, dissolving the "24/7 panic response" and expanding your capacity to hold higher revenue, make bigger decisions, and genuinely rest without triggering stress, exhaustion, or burnout.
This is where true, permanent transformation happens. This is where we change the rules of the Silent Partners, using Values alignment techniques, advanced NLP, Quantum Release, and Parts Integration protocols. We update the outdated survival rules that your Silent Partner has been playing by.
We resolve the underlying negative emotions and limiting decisions, recovering and integrating those sidelined identities.
By rewriting the rule book at the unconscious level, your 95% unconscious mind finally works for your growth, aligning your drive and experience with your new level of leadership and total freedom.
After my mom passed, I hit a wall.
I couldn't keep running myself ragged anymore
I didn't WANT to run ragged anymore.
One day, I'm standing in Starbucks. Watching the barista behind the counter.
She's laughing with customers, clocking out at 5pm. Going HOME.
No emails. No fires to put out. No lying awake at 3AM replaying business decisions.
And I realized...
She has way more fun in her life than I do.
Meanwhile...
I'd built a successful 7-figure landscape architecture practice.
From the outside, everything looked great.
But inside?
I was trapped.
70+ hour weeks.
Not spending time with my kids.
Losing connection with my friends.
Feeling alone.
Even my hobbies were starting to feel like obligations.
I had two choices:
Give up my business (which was tempting)...
Or figure out how to create a lifestyle business.
A business built for ME.
A business that supported every part of my life...
Instead of the other way around.
Here's what I wanted:
Evenings and weekends free.
To earn the money I deserved.
To enjoy every part of my life.
To stop feeling like a prisoner in the business I loved.
So I went on a mission.
Deep dive into personal development.
Business course after business course.
Countless books.
I even earned a few coaching designations to figure this out.
Here's what I discovered:
To get from stress, busyness, and overwhelm...
To freedom, joy, and sustainability...
Changing my strategy wasn't enough.
I had to stop fighting my Silent Partners.
I realized my unconscious mind was operating as a Silent Partner
Running 95% of my behavior
and keeping me trapped in the hustle.
To break the loop permanently I had to do 3 things
I had to gain control of my Executive Brain
I had to change my Silent Partner's rules,
And I needed to step into my true identity.
"I work 70+ hours a week because if I don't do it, it won't get done."
"I know I need to take time to rest and relax, but there's so much to do.
I have to put in the hours to keep my head above water."
"I know I need to delegate, but every time I try, my nervous system panics."
"I procrastinate on the things that would actually grow my business—
marketing, sales calls, client outreach."
"I chose my business over family dinners... again... and I hate myself for it."
"I've spent $15K+ on business courses and nothing sticks. I'm right back where I started within a week."
Here's what you probably haven't realized yet:
Every time you push for your next level of growth,
your Silent Partner activates a survival response,
diverting your focus, spiking your stress,
and pulling you right back into overdrive.
Every single time!
You don't need another business course
another strategy
or more hours at your desk.
You just need to change the rules.
"I have to do everything myself"
"Control = Safety"
"I'm only valuable when I'm producing"
"Mistakes = abandonment"
"I don't deserve what I want"
"Asking for help means I'm weak"
When you rewrite these foundational safety rules at the unconscious level, everything shifts. You gain:
Conscious Clairty: Finally understand the hidden origin behind your hustle, second guessing, and hesitation, bringing total clarity to why you've been stuck.
Radical Compassion: Realize with complete certainty that you were never broken or lacking discipline. Your system was simply protecting a 6-year old's definition of safety.
Deep Self-Forgiveness: Stop blaming yourself for past plateaus, burnt-out weekends, or missed opportunities, and channel that wasted energy back into leading your business.
Unconscious Rule Release: Dissolve the Silent Partner's survival response at the unconscious level so lasting behavioral change happens without force or willpower.
Confidence: Step into calm, unshakable authority, trusting your authentic business wisdom to make high-stakes decisions with total conviction.
A clear path forward: Move forward with a clear strategic roadmap where your daily actions naturally mirror your highest vision for revenue and personal freedom.
CONSCIOUS LEVEL (What You'll Know):
The Root Source: The exact age and event when the hijack was installed
The Code: Which limiting decision your unconscious mind created to keep you safe
The Pattern Deconstruction: Why you keep repeating the same self-sabotaging patterns
The Missing Pieces: What identity parts you suppressed that need integration
Forgiveness & Relief: "It's not my fault—I didn't know I was hijacked by my Silent Partner"
Authority & Permission: "I can take back control from my silent partner"
Clarity: "I finally understand WHY I've been stuck"
High Velocity Action: Take action on ONE thing you've avoided for months (that same day or next morning)
Brain Loop Interruption: Stop the mental loop of self-blame and "I should be able to handle this"
Rapid Decision Making: Make decisions faster (because you understand the hijack trying to slow you down)
"I've struggled with procrastination for years.
Helle identified the source of my procrastination, revealing my true identity.
And the very next day, I felt excited to work on my marketing - something I was procrastinating about for a long time!"
"Helle brought such a natural sense of flow and confidence to our session that I felt immediately at ease.
Because of that, I was able to go deeper than I expected
and release a limiting belief that had quietly shaped my choices for years.
Her grounded presence made the work feel both safe and powerful—
and the shift I experienced has stayed with me."
I was in this crazy cycle of success and failure for about 12 years.
It showed up in my business, and it showed up in my weight.
Every time I’d build my business, something would happen and I’d sabotage my success.
Every time I lost weight, I’d sabotage all the effort I’d put into getting there.
Helle helped me discover a part of myself that needed to control everything to feel safe.
She helped me integrate that part of myself by re-defining what control means to me.
I’m now able to use that part of me that likes to control, to create consistency in my business.
My income is now growing steadily, and my weight is dropping steadily.
I have every confidence this is a lasting trend.
I wish I had done this sooner!
"Helle holds deep space and guidance for getting deeper, to the root cause of what's really going on.
I was surprised at how deep she was able to take me in such a short time
to get the shift I needed to take myself to the next level."
This is a proven framework I’ve used with hundreds of entrepreneurs to break the bottlenecks they didn't even know they had. We don't sit around over-analyzing your problems; we systematically dismantle them.
Here’s exactly what happens:
Phase 1: Values Elicitation
We elicit your business values.
They determine your motivation for taking action.
When your values are in alignment with what it takes to build a business, you remove the resistance,
Phase 2: Core Program Identification
We start with your presenting problem, the exact place where you feel stuck.
It could be overwhelm, control, procrastination, money - whatever’s blocking you.
Then I ask: “What do you want instead?”
And we scale it. On a scale of 1-10, where are you now?
This gives us measurable feedback
Through specific questioning, we trace it back
From the presenting problem, to the greater problem, to the CORE PROGRAM.
The childhood moment (usually age 0-7) when your unconscious mind made a limiting decision to protect you. To keep you safe.
Most clients are shocked!
“Wait… THAT’S when this started?”
A move to a new country. A missed promise. A moment of shame.
Something you haven’t thought about in decades is actually the Silent Partner driving 95% of your life, and your business this whole time.
Phase 3: The “Holy Crap” Moment
We identify which needs went unmet - Love, safety, acceptance, control, certainty.
What did 6-year old you need that she didn’t get?
We recognize the suppressed parts of your identity.
The qualities you buried to survive that moment.
Your willingness to receive help. Your ability to trust others. Your permission to rest.
We speak directly to the “silent partner part”.
The part that’s been controlling everything.
And here’s where the magic begins…
We REFRAME it.
Your “control part” isn’t your enemy.
Its a misguided protector trying to keep you safe with an outdated strategy.
This is the “holy crap” moment.
This is when your energy begins to shifts.
Everything begins to click.
You understand it all at a conscious level.
One client literally said
“My control part is actually a PARTNER that can help me?”
Yes, exactly!
Phase 4: Clarity and a Path Forward
We build up the possibilities
What’s going to be different now that you have this awareness?
How will you show up in your business? Your relationships? Your life?
And we re-scale
On a scale of 1-10, where are you NOW in relation to what you wanted at the beginning?
Clients consistently go from 4/10 to 9/10 in this single session.
This is how we know we've found the key moment.
Phase 5: The Release
We remove the negative emotions and limiting decisions we uncovered.
No surgery required.
It's a process called the Quantum Release, that elicits information directly from your unconscious mind.
I simply direct you to discover the truth that's already inside you.
You gain learnings from your unconscious mind
Who you really are at your core, your authentic identity that you've suppressed.
The identity that allows you to achieve your every goal.
We integrate your parts
The parts of you that have been fighting each other for control, causing internal conflict that prevents you from moving forward, so they can work together to help you achieve your goals.
Instead of preventing you from achieving your goals.
Part 6: Values Re-elicitation
We re-elicit your business values to see how your metrics have shifted.
And that means how your motivation has shifted at the unconscious level.
Creating more possibilities for your future
Part 7: Your goal in the Future
We establish your new goal in a format the unconscious mind can recognize, so your conscious and unconscious minds are in alignment.
Moving toward the same goal instead of sabotaging your every effort.
We visualize the future
Integrating what you've learned through the release, and create a strategic plan to move forward.
Part 8: Integration
This is where you'll make lasting change. Your unconscious mind takes time to integrate it all. You're literally creating new neural pathways in your brain.
A breakthrough without action is just a
beautiful perspective shift that
leaves your bank account exactly the same.
This is the phase where we ground your breakthrough into reality.
We've discovered your true identity.
This is where you learn to consistently take action from that place.
The Silent Partner is officially out of a job.
And anchoring the new Silent Partnertakes deliberate practice.
You're learning to take action from an expanded comfort zone.
The bold moves that used to trigger your Silent Partners,
are now becoming your normal baseline.
Your old neural pathways are still strong.
Having the support and accountability to choose
your newly created neural pathways ensures your success.
Together we'll hold the line on your new identity until your daily actions
produce the three freedoms:
Financial Freedom
Time Freedom
The Internal Freedom to Savor Every Part of Your Life.
We systematically anchor your true identity through distinct levels of ongoing integration and capacity building:
Integration Level
Your Gateway to Growth
The Identity Shift
Performance Anchor
Identity Alignment
(3 months)
Dissolve the Hidden Friction
Release the unconscious patterns stalling your output and shrink your emotional recovery time from days of spiraling to minutes of calm observation. Build elite habits that unlock steady momentum and instant mental quiet.
From Overwhelmed to Anchored: Shifting from a redlined, maxed-out nervous system to holding the space required to safely sustain rapid growth
Quantum Ascent
Identity Evolution
(6 months)
Unshakeable Authority
Smooth the path by clearing the unconscious rules that make team leadership feel unsafe. Stop comparing your behind the scenes mess to everyone else's highlight reel and naturally drive higher revenue while leading with authority.
From Hyper-Vigilance to Aligned Visionary:
Moving past the imposter blueprint to lead your brand and team with absolute internal alignment
Freedom Mastery
Identity Mastery
(12 months)
Systematize Sustainable Growth
Deep code elite performance and mental quiet into your automated default. Develop the financial acumen to make data driven logical decisions. Step into the quiet power of a visionary leader who guides the business from a place of absolute certainty.
From Hyper-Vigilance to Aligned Visionary:
Embodying the calm CEO and strategic architect who owns a scalable business asset rather than a demanding job.
You've tried productivity systems, business strategies, and hired VAs—but you're STILL overwhelmed
You know you're the problem (the bottleneck, the controller, the perfectionist) but don't know HOW to change
You're willing to look at childhood patterns if it means finally breaking free
You want a logical, neuroscience-backed explanation—not "woo-woo" manifestation talk
You're ready for the truth about what's been sabotaging your success
You're a driven entrepreneur who's built something successful but feel trapped by it
You're open to doing deep, transformational inner work
You want a magic pill that requires zero self-reflection
You're looking for more business tactics (you need inner work, not outer systems)
You're not willing to revisit childhood experiences (even briefly and safely)
You want a 12-week group program (this is intensive 1:1 breakthrough work)
You're committed to blaming your team, clients, or the market for your problems
You're not ready to take responsibility for your unconscious patterns
You cannot hustle your way past an unconscious pattern.
True growth requires a breakthrough to shift your identity.
Followed by the deliberate integration and accountability
to ground that shift into daily momentum.
Let's get on a call to look at what's really running your business
and discuss the breakthrough and integration options
that will finally unlock your freedom.
Hi, I’m Helle
I’ve been a high-achieving entrepreneur for over 35 years.
And for the first decade, I was a hot mess!
Working 80-hour weeks. Having single mom guilt eat me alive while I built a 7-figure business that felt like a prison. I was drowning!
Until I discovered I had been hijacked.
I finally understood I wasn’t doing anything wrong! There was nothing wrong with me. And I wasn’t losing control.
I had to release the hijack!
It was the missing piece I had been looking for.
And I’m passionate about helping other entrepreneurs reverse the hijack...
So they can finally enjoy the life their business was supposed to give them.

You WILL:
Identify the core program (age 0-7) that created your current hijack
Understand which needs went unmet and what identity parts you suppressed
Experience the "holy crap, THAT'S why" integration moment
Change our Silent Partner's rules at the unconscious level
Walk away with clarity on and a path forward
If you don't have that breakthrough clarity by the end of our session, you don't pay.
Period.
I'm that confident in this process.
Because I've seen it work hundreds of times.
"Is this therapy?"
No.
This is clinical coaching using proven NLP and Mind Matrix techniques.
We're not processing trauma for months.
We're identifying the CORE PROGRAM of your business patterns.
Therapy is ongoing exploration.
This is precision diagnosis and release.
"What if I can't remember my childhood?"
You don't need to consciously remember.
Through clinical questioning, we'll access the unconscious memories.
Most clients are SHOCKED when the moment surfaces.
"I haven't thought about that in 40 years..."
"What if I don't have a 'traumatic' childhood?"
You don't need trauma to have Silent Partners.
Small moments create BIG unconscious decisions.
A missed promise.
A moment of shame.
Feeling unseen.
My Silent Partner came from my mom saying "figure it out yourself."
She wasn't abusive. She was just overwhelmed.
But my 6-year-old brain made it MEAN something.
That's how Silent Partners work.
"Will this really work?"
Yes.
If you show up ready to do the work.
This isn't surface-level coaching.
We go DEEP. Fast.
And the results are immediate.
Samantha: 4/10 to 9/10 in one session.
Even before we released it from her unconscious mind.
"What happens after the Silent Partner Override?"
You'll have awareness of your Silent Partners and the identities you suppressed.
This creates lasting behavior change.
Now it's time to integrate the identities into everything you do - in your business AND your life.
You've changed the rules of your Silent Partner, and you still need to take inspired action to achieve your goals.
This isn't magic...
You can work at this at your own pace.
And I recommend that you enroll in 6-12 months of 1:1 coaching
Where you'll learn to take action from your new identity.
And gain support along the way for other Silent Partners that hold you back.
"How is this different from business coaching?"
Business coaching gives you strategies and tactics.
This gives you the INTERNAL transformation that makes those strategies actually work.
You don't need another course on delegation.
You need to decode why your nervous system panics when you try to delegate.
And then we change the rules.
That's what we do.
"What if I'm skeptical?"
Good. You should be.
You've been burned before by programs that promised transformation and delivered nothing.
That's why I offer the guarantee:
If you don't have breakthrough clarity by the end of our sessions, you don't pay.
Come skeptical.
Leave transformed.
I only take 2 Silent Partner Override clients per month to ensure deep, transformational work.
Once those slots are filled, the next available opening is 4-6 weeks out.
And every month, I have a waitlist.
So if you're ready to change the rules of the Silent Partner who's been running your business for decades...
Don't wait.
You didn't build a successful business by accident.
You're capable. Driven. Intelligent.
The problem isn't YOU.
It's the rules of the Silent Partner installed when you were 6 years old...
Still running your show.
Just like mine was.
Until I triaged it.
And released it!
And now?
I help entrepreneurs like you do the same.
Because you don't have to stay trapped.
You can discover:
The exact moment that started it all.
The needs that went unmet.
The identity parts you suppressed.
The release that changes everything.
And you'll walk away with clarity, relief, and a clear path forward.
The forgotten moment is already costing you.
Your time. Your freedom. Your relationships. Your health.
The only question is...
Are you ready to find it?
Let's do this together!
Helle Brodie
Transformational Business Coach,
Root Cause Coaching Master Practitioner
NLP Master Practitioner
Somatic Coach
Certified Hypnotherapist
REIKI II Practitioner
