The Silent Partner Triage

Discover the rule created by your Silent Partner

that's been Running your Business

For Decades

95% of everything you do is unconscious.

In 90 minutes, discover the exact rule

installed by your Silent Partner

that keeps you working yourself to exhaustion.

And why your Silent Partner still derails every attempt to

delegate, rest, and build the sustainable business you deserve

The Starbucks Barista Who Had More Freedom Than I Did

After my mom passed, I hit a wall.

I couldn't keep running myself ragged anymore

I didn't WANT to run ragged anymore.

One day, I'm standing in Starbucks. Watching the barista behind the counter.

She's laughing with customers, clocking out at 5pm. Going HOME.

No emails. No fires to put out. No lying awake at 3AM replaying business decisions.

And I realized...

Shas way more fun in her life than I do.

Meanwhile...

I'd built a successful 7-figure landscape architecture practice.

From the outside, everything looked great.

But inside?

I was trapped.

70+ hour weeks.

Controlling every detail because "if I don't do it, it won't get done right"

Not spending time with my kids.

Losing connection with my friends.

Feeling alone.

Even my hobbies were starting to feel like obligations.

I had two choices:

Give up my business (which was tempting)...

Or figure out how to create a lifestyle business.

A business built for ME.

A business that supported every part of my life...

Instead of the other way around.

Here's what I wanted:

Evenings and weekends free.

To earn the money I deserved.

To enjoy every part of my life.

To stop feeling like a prisoner in the business I built.

So I went on a mission.

Deep dive into personal development.

Business course after business course.

Countless books.

I even earned a few coaching designations to figure this out.

Here's what I discovered:

To get from stress, busyness, and overwhelm...

To freedom, joy, and sustainability...

I had to do 3 things

I had to gain control of my Executive Brain

I had to change my Silent Partner's Rules,

And I needed to Integrate my life and my business

Does this sound familiar?

"I work 70+ hours a week because if I don't do it, it won't get done right."

"I lie awake at 3AM replaying every business decision, catastrophizing about what could go wrong."

"I know I need to delegate, but every time I try, my nervous system panics."

"I procrastinate on the things that would actually grow my business—marketing, sales calls, client outreach."

"I choose my business over family dinners... again... and I hate myself for it."

"I've spent $15K+ on business courses and nothing sticks. I'm right back where I started within a week."

Here's what you probably haven't realized yet:

This isn't a business problem.

This is a Silent Partner Problem

The Silent Partner Running Your Show

Between age 0-7—what neuroscience calls the "imprint years"

your brain installed programs to keep you safe.

Programs like:

  • "I have to do everything myself"

  • "Control = Safety"

  • "I'm only valuable when I'm producing"

  • "Mistakes = abandonment"

  • "I don't deserve what I want"

These weren't conscious thoughts

They were unconscious decisions.

Made by a 6-year old you

trying to survive a moment that felt scary or uncertain.

And they WORKED... when you were 6

But now?

They're destroying your business

You can't delegate... because 6-year old you learned

"I can't rely on anyone"

You work yourself to exhaustion... because 6-year old you learned

"my worth = how hard I work"

You procrastinate... because 6-year old you learned

"wanting things leads to shame"

See the pattern?

It isn't happening at the conscious level.

It's running in the BACKGROUND.

On autopilot.

By your Silent Partner!

And until you identify WHICH program is running...

You'll keep getting the same results.

No productivity system will work.

No delegation framework will stick.

Because you're fighting an invisible enemy.

The Silent Partner Triage: Your 90-minute Journey

This isn’t guesswork

This is a proven clinical framework I’ve used with hundreds of entrepreneurs

Here’s what happens in your session:

Phase 1:  Root Cause Identification

We start with your presenting problem 

The place where you feel stuck

It could be overwhelm, control, procrastination - whatever’s blocking you

Then I ask:  “What do you want instead?”

And we scale it.

On a scale of 1-10, where are you now?

This gives us measurable feedback

Through specific questioning, we trace it back

From the presenting problem

To the greater problem

To the ROOT CAUSE

The moment (usually age 0-7) when your Silent Partner made a limiting decision

Most clients are shocked!

“Wait… THAT’S when this started?”

A move to a new country.  A missed promise.  A moment of shame.

Something you haven’t thought about in decades.

And it’s been running your life, and your business this whole time.

Phase 2:  The “Holy Crap” Integration Moment

We identify which needs went unmet.

Love. Safety. Acceptance. Control. Certainty.

What did 6-year old you need that she didn’t get?

You runcover the suppressed parts of your identity.

The qualities you buried to survive that moment.

Things like: your willingness to receive help; your ability to trust others; or permission to rest.

We speak directly to the Silent Partner.

The part that’s been controlling everything.

And here’s where the magic happens…

We REFRAME it.

Your “control part” isn’t your enemy.

Its a misguided protector trying to keep you safe with an outdated strategy.

This is the “holy crap” moment.

This is when your energy shifts.

Everything clicks.

One client literally said

“My control part is actually a PARTNER that can help me?”

Yes, exactly!

Phase 3: Clarity and a Path Forward

We build up the possibilities

What’s going to be different now that you have this awareness?

How will you show up in your business?  Your relationships?  Your life?

We visualize the future

With this new understanding integrated

And we re-scale

On a scale of 1-10, where are you NOW in relation to what you wanted at the beginning?

Clients consistently go from 4/10 to 9/10 in this single session.

You walk away with:

  • Understanding at a conscious level of what's been holding you back

  • Rationalized clarity on your own behaviors (you're not broken, you were just protecting yourself)

  • Permission to stop blaming yourself

  • Confidence to move forward

  • The ability to spot your Silent Partner in real time

  • A clear path forward

Here's what shifts immediately after your Triage session:

CONSCIOUS LEVEL (What You'll Know):

  • The exact age and event when the Silent Partner's rule was installed

  • Which limiting decision your Silent Partner made to keep you safe

  • Why you keep repeating the same self-sabotaging patterns

  • What identity parts you suppressed that need integration

EMOTIONAL LEVEL (What You'll Feel):

  • Relief: "It's not my fault—I didn't know it was my Silent Partner"

  • Permission: "I can stop fighting myself now"

  • Clarity: "I finally understand WHY I've been stuck"

  • Readiness: "I know what needs to be released"

BEHAVIORAL LEVEL (What You'll Do Differently - Immediately):

  • Take action on ONE thing you've avoided for months (that same day or next morning)

  • Stop the mental loop of self-blame and "I should be able to handle this"

  • Make decisions faster (because you understand the Silent Partner trying to slow you down)

Real Results from Real Entrepreneurs

Samantha: From Procrastination to Action in 24 Hours

"I've struggled with procrastination for years.

In just 90 minutes, Helle identified the source of my procrastination, revealing my true identity.

And the very next day, I felt excited to work on my marketing - something I was procrastinating about for a long time!"

Sarah: Deep Shift that Stayed

"Helle brought such a natural sense of flow and confidence to our session that I felt immediately at ease.

Because of that, I was able to go deeper than I expected

and release a limiting belief that had quietly shaped my choices for years.

Her grounded presence made the work feel both safe and powerful—

and the shift I experienced has stayed with me."

Joanna: Surprised By the Depth

"Helle holds deep space and guidance for getting deeper, to the root cause of what's really going on.

I was surprised at how deep she was able to take me in such a short time

to get the shift I needed to take myself to the next level."

The Silent Partner Triage is for you if:

  • You've tried productivity systems, business strategies, and hired VAs—but you're STILL overwhelmed

  • You know you're the problem (the bottleneck, the controller, the perfectionist) but don't know HOW to change

  • You're willing to look at childhood patterns if it means finally breaking free

  • You want a logical, neuroscience-backed explanation—not "woo-woo" manifestation talk

  • You're ready for the truth about what's been sabotaging your success

  • You're a driven entrepreneur who's built something successful but feel trapped by it

  • You're open to doing 90 minutes of deep, transformational inner work


The Silent Partner Triage is NOT for you if:

  • You want a magic pill that requires zero self-reflection

  • You're looking for more business tactics (you need inner work, not outer systems)

  • You're not willing to revisit childhood experiences (even briefly and safely)

  • You want a 12-week program (this is 90 minutes of intensive breakthrough work)

  • You're committed to blaming your team, clients, or market for your overwhelm

  • You're not ready to take responsibility for your unconscious patterns


Not sure if this is right for you?

The Investment

$325 for your 90-minute Silent Partner Triage Session

Let me put that in perspective.

Compare $325 to:

💸 The $15,000+ you've already spent on business courses that treated symptoms instead of root causes

💸 The cost of your marriage ending because you keep choosing work over family dinners

💸 The revenue you're losing every month you stay the bottleneck (10K−10K-10K−50K+)

💸 The health crisis waiting if you don't triage why you can't stop the 70-hour weeks

💸 The therapy sessions that take months to get to the root cause (5K−5K-5K−15K)

Here's what you're really paying for:

The exact childhood moment that installed your Silent Partner's rule.

The forgotten event that's been sabotaging your ability to delegate, rest, and trust for DECADES.

The specific limiting decision stored in your unconscious mind.

The reframe that turns your "enemy part" into your ally.

The integration moment where everything clicks.

90 minutes. One forgotten moment. Immediate relief.

And a path to permanent freedom.


A bit about Helle:

Hi, I’m Helle

I’ve been a high-achieving entrepreneur for over 35 years.  

And for the first decade, I was a hot mess!

Working 80-hour weeks.  Having single mom guilt eat me alive while I built a 7-figure business that felt like a prison.  I was drowning!

Until I discovered I had a Silent Partner. 

I finally understood I wasn’t doing anything wrong!  There was nothing wrong with me.  And I wasn’t losing control. 

I had to change my Silent Partner's rules!

It was the missing piece I had been looking for.

And I’m passionate about helping other entrepreneurs bring their Silent Partners on line to help them achieve their goals...

And their freedom!

So they can finally enjoy the life their business was supposed to give them.

The Silent Partner Triage Promise

Within 90 minutes, you WILL:

  • Identify the root cause moment (age 0-7) that created your Silent Partner's current rules

  • Understand which needs went unmet and what identity parts you suppressed

  • Experience the "holy crap, THAT'S why" integration moment

  • Walk away with clarity on what to work on and a path forward

If you don't have that breakthrough clarity by the end of our session, you don't pay.

Period.

I'm that confident in this process.

Because I've seen it work hundreds of times.

Frequently Asked Questions

"Is this therapy?"

No.

This is clinical coaching using proven NLP and Mind Matrix techniques.

We're not processing trauma for months.

We're identifying the ROOT CAUSE of your business patterns in 90 minutes.

Therapy is ongoing exploration.

This is precision diagnosis.

"What if I can't remember my childhood?"

You don't need to consciously remember.

Through clinical questioning, we'll access the unconscious memories.

Most clients are SHOCKED when the moment surfaces.

"I haven't thought about that in 40 years..."

"What if I don't have a 'traumatic' childhood?"

You don't need trauma to have a Silent Partner that sabotages your goals.

Small moments create BIG unconscious decisions.

A missed promise.

A moment of shame.

Feeling unseen.

My Silent Partner's rule came from my mom saying "figure it out yourself."

She wasn't abusive. She was just overwhelmed.

But my 6-year-old brain made it MEAN something.

That's how Silent Partners work.

"Will this really work in just 90 minutes?"

Yes.

If you show up ready to do the work.

This isn't surface-level coaching.

We go DEEP. Fast.

And the results are immediate.

Samantha: 4/10 to 9/10 in one session.

"What happens after the Silent Partner Triage?"

You'll have conscious awareness of your Silent Partner's rules.

For many clients, that's enough.

The awareness creates lasting behavior change.

For others, they realize they want to release the limiting decision at the UNCONSCIOUS level.

That's what the Silent Partner Override does (a separate, deeper program).

But you can't do Override until you've done Decoder.

Because you need to know WHAT to release before you can release it.

"How is this different from business coaching?"

Business coaching gives you strategies and tactics.

This gives you the INTERNAL transformation that makes those strategies actually work.

You don't need another course on delegation.

You need to triage why your nervous system panics when you try to delegate.

That's what we do.

"What if I'm skeptical?"

Good. You should be.

You've been burned before by programs that promised transformation and delivered nothing.

That's why I offer the guarantee:

If you don't have breakthrough clarity by the end of our session, you don't pay.

Come skeptical.

Leave transformed.


Limited Availability

I only take 4 Silent Partner Triage clients per month to ensure deep, transformational work.

Once those slots are filled, the next available opening is 4-6 weeks out.

And every month, I have a waitlist.

So if you're ready to discover the forgotten moment that's been running your business for decades...

Don't wait.

Ready to Take Control of Your Business and Your Future?

You didn't build a successful business by accident.

You're capable. Driven. Intelligent.

The problem isn't YOU.

It's the Silent Partner's rule created when you were 6 years old...

Still running your show.

Just like mine was.

Until I triaged it.

And now?

I help entrepreneurs like you do the same.

Because you don't have to stay trapped.

In 90 minutes, you can discover:

The exact moment that started it all.

The needs that went unmet.

The identity parts you suppressed.

The reframe that changes everything.

And you'll walk away with clarity, relief, and a path forward.

The forgotten moment is already costing you.

Your time. Your freedom. Your relationships. Your health.

The only question is...

Are you ready to find it?


Let's do this together!

Helle Brodie

Transformational Business Coach,

Root Cause Coaching Master Practitioner

NLP Master Practitioner

Somatic Coach

Certified Hypnotherapist

REIKI II Practitioner

Contact

416-816-0201